Change is in the air. I know you feel it. Maybe something happened this week that changed your routine, your perspective, your life. Now you’re left thinking about the chain of events that have brought you to this Now. I think it’s so significant that it’s raining here, as we move into a water sign known for its cleansing and healing powers. There’s this inner urgency to do something about what you’re feeling, yet it seems like there’s a fog impairing your view. Maybe this weekend is about taking some time to sit within and really be honest about the themes you are stuck on. Find the silver lining in an otherwise weird, and uncomfortable adjustment.
I find this post hard to write because I feel like this is a very individual and specific time for reflection. Only you are going to be able to dissect the themes I suggest below. For me, it has been a lot about making sure my life is fulfilling and my passions are involved in building my future. I have taken a lot of time to research and listen to different aspects and different voices to create a suggested list of themes occurring around the world to offer a condensed and simplified perspective that might help you align with yourself (this is my passion, creating connection).
Grab a hot cocoa and snuggle under your blanket for a little you time….
Ego and Ego Projection. Have you been feeling like you need a total redo? Have you outgrown who you’ve been and the friends you run with? Have you been gaining a greater vision on your purpose in this world? The people in your life will come and go, try not to focus on the drama or loss. Understand that it’s all a part of your growth and evolution as a soul. New chapters are upon you and so much of it will be tied into the people you choose to surround yourself with. Keep your mind on positive, forward movement. Who will best reflect this new you?
Focus. Have you been feeling out of alignment with yourself? Have you lost sight of your goals and who you are? Maybe you felt like you’ve been stuck. Or instead of doing the work to change, you kind of just turned your head to the issues that needed to be taken care of. Now is the time to get back to your Self. Trust in who you are, the goals you want, and in the people who can help get you there. Realign to trust and love. By loving yourself, you will mirror love in others. Find your joy and express it, trusting that the relationships around you will also heal and benefit from this. This is a wake up call. Look in the mirror and realize you are your reality and the relationships around you. Shift and all will shift with you.
Valuing Vision. Is there something missing in your reality? Maybe on paper everything seems perfect, but you just aren’t feeling completed. Take some time to look at your future and long term goals. Is your present genuinely aligning with the life you wish to have? Be honest about what you truly want. Look into your heart, then look around. Perhaps the people you surround yourself with do not share a like mind. Find people who can take you to the places you want to go. You are so close to manifesting all that you desire, stay true to yourself and look upon your reality with an honest heart.
Movement and Responsibility. Sometimes we get so caught up in our relationships we forget they do not define us. You define yourself, and it’s time to do that on your own again. What are you doing to make sure you are living your truthful expression? Your satisfaction is your responsibility, it’s time to get to work. Make a chore list and start checking off goals. No one is going to do it for you, and you really can have all that you desire. As long as you’re willing to get there on your own two feet.
Passion. Are you really happy in the life you’re living? Take some time to look at where you’ve been. Have you truly left behind the past or is there something lingering in the back of your mind that you still need to deal with. Maybe it’s a passion you’ve been ignoring and misinterpreted, or an old relationship you still need to learn from. Dig deep this time and really look at yourself and your patterns. Look at your desires. You are a powerful entity. Trust that the Universe will provide for you the moment you can clearly understand what to ask for. Look at the big picture and find the missing pieces before jumping into the wishing well.
Subjective Guidance. Listen to the message of your emotions. Are there parts of your life that have been feeling uncomfortable? Have you noticed dynamics changing between you and the people around you? Trust in yourself and move into what feels right. Trust the push that is calling you towards a higher destiny. Don’t overthink it and don’t assume it won’t last. Give yourself a break and be proud of the work you’ve accomplished and the reality you’ve built. Quit the self judgement and focus on the light brought by positive influence. Use your intuition to guide you.
Healthy Communication. With yourself and others. Take a good look around you and see how your relationships are affecting your mental and physical health. Are you holding on when you should be letting go and how is that damaging your ability to be in the right place? You have the chance to expand and move forward with the knowledge you hold, but it’s your choice to take action or stay stagnant. Communicate to yourself what you wish to improve, and then use that message to let others help you in a supportive and loving manner. They’re unwilling? Maybe it’s time to have an honest talk about their inclusion in your reality.
Higher Frequency. Know your worth. Just because you have all that you want doesn’t mean its value is as high as it could be. Is your reality reflecting the frequency of your soul? Take stock of what you have and dig a little deeper. Look past the material wealth and make sure you are manifesting things that will bring you to the best possible level of satisfaction. Challenge yourself to see the ethereal meaning behind the things you wish to obtain in this life. Your ability is endless and the itch that keeps you up at night is entirely important to realizing how to get there.
Foundation Fortress. How do you want to express yourself? Maybe you’ve been doing a lot of soul searching the past week. Where are you going and what are you going to do? What is it that you want out of life? Has your core been shaken? Has the structure of home and family been shaken up? Perhaps it’s time to walk away from the emptiness of the past and rebuild your new foundations. It’s hard to get up from rock bottom and recreate what your heart is aching for, but doing nothing produces nothing. What your heart yearns for is worth protecting, is worth going after. Take some time to rebuild in the right place.
Expectation. You thought you had it all figured out, right? The plan was so clear, there shouldn’t have been any deviations. Yet here you stand and nothing went the way you had planned. Understand that the process is as important as the destination. Practicing flexibility is vital to learning the lesson of the journey. Who cares how you get to where you’re going as long as you get there? So many new rewards could be brought to you if you remain open to the unexpected. Let go of what didn’t happen the way you wanted. Allow the universe to guide you into new territory so that you may arrive at your goal in the best manner possible. A way you could have never imagined. Make some space for possibility.
Perspective. Remember Yin and Yang. Remember the balance. Don’t allow the high of all your powerful manifesting come crashing down because of one trip up or negative experience. Challenge yourself to stay in the center of all the good things that are happening. Don’t feed into false arrogance to block yourself from the opportunity to learn in loss. Instead, change your perspective on what you view as negative. Maybe something had to fall apart in order for something better to fall together. Maybe you have to let go of something to make room for improvement. Have a little faith in the power of your manifesting ability, and remember what you’ve wished for. Take an unbiased approach to what’s happening around you. If something falls apart, there’s a good chance that it wasn’t really working for you anyway. So let yourself get rid of it, let yourself make room for something better, even if you don’t know what it is yet. Amazing things come to us in ways we least expect it.
Navigating Limbo. Do you feels stuck between what has happened and what’s coming next? Use this time to cleanse yourself from what no longer serves you and meditate on the tomorrow you wish to create. Guide yourself through the transition with a focused vision of your next chapter. Keep it simple, and don’t get lost in the commotion of change. Shed skin, cleanse yourself of distractions and outdated patterns. Prepare yourself for the new experience. Create a goal. Take one step at a time. Focus. Breathe. The unease of the in between never lasts as long as we think it will and you have to use this time to be certain about which world you will enter next.
If you made it to the bottom, I have one last general idea to share. Remember we are all going through it. Sensitivity is high in transitions and we are all feeling a little naked and exposed. Stay centered, stay calm. Do not look to anger to inspire you. Do not let the process overwhelm you into jumping timelines before you can see the path. Be kind to others and to yourself and I think you will be amazed at the results that come from it. Change has the ability to be abrupt and shocking, so make sure you’re utilizing that for your highest good. Magic is in the air….